From a long-term relationship which didn’t worked out, God gave someone who I knew way back in our youth (and yes it wasn’t our time to have those romantic feelings since our focus is about Him). One thing I know it was him after all of these (past, pain, doubt, fear) is… peace. The peace that only Jesus can give — a gift. Peace of mind. Peace of heart. This two. Together. (John 14:27) Ladies, this isn’t difficult to discern (trust me, I know!). What makes it painful for us to decide is because we try to BARGAIN with God. Let the real Author write a story worth reading.
There are so many women who are under the impression, myself included at one point, that when you cry over the relationship, you’re more invested in it because you fought for it. It sounds romantic. But it’s really not. It’s not necessary. The more you cry over a person, it doesn’t make the love stronger, if anything you’ll just regret that you cried over a person so much for nothing.